A caregiver writes notes while talking on the phone.

If my parent does not answer

A missed call is usually nothing. But it’s easier to stay calm when you already know what you’ll do next.

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Sheet preview: If my parent does not answer

How to use it

  1. Agree on a simple check-in plan with your parent and one person who lives nearby.
  2. The sheet has room for the usual check-in time, when you’ll try again, who nearby agreed to check, a backup person, and how a trusted helper can get in.
  3. Don’t write door codes on it.
  4. If you think there is danger now, don’t wait: call for emergency help near your parent and give their full address. If you live far away, use the local emergency number on the sheet.

A check-in plan everyone agrees on

Before a call is ever missed, agree on a plan with your parent and the people nearby who will help. Pick a usual call time, when you will try again, and who will go and check if there is still no answer. Use times that fit your parent’s day.

If you live far away, your 911 call may reach your own area, not theirs. Before a crisis, ask the police office near your parent which 10-digit number to use from far away. Find its main office number in the town’s official listing; do not call 911 to ask.

Keep a copy by your phone, and give one to each person who agreed to help. Keep entry codes private. If you believe there is danger now, skip the waiting steps and tell the emergency dispatcher the full address and what you know.

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